My family reserves one night a week for just us. We try not to book anything else so that we can do an activity together, like swimming, playing board games, and sometimes holding a family council.
This past week I was taught an important lesson concerning how to teach my kids. It came in 2 parts.
Part 1: For our family night my wife and I decided to help teach our children about budgeting and saving money. We went through a brief discussion about separating their allowance (based on chores done properly) into spending, savings, and long-term savings. We used lots of examples of things they could save for that would take a few months to do (iPod Touch, horse riding lessons...). We tried to emphasize that by saving some of the spending money they would achieve their goals more quickly. We then decorated 3 boxes for each child, giving them a place to store their money as they saved it for the 3 different purposes. I though it went pretty well, until we were starting to clean up and the 3 oldest immediately asked if they could go to 7-11 to buy a slush. It was a "slap my forehead in frustration" moment.
