Prize contest at the end of the article.
A lot of people are concerned about the money habits youth have today. These concerned citizens often say things like “They need to teach budgeting in school” or “than credit union needs work with kids more.” The truth is that School does have a class in grade 10 where budgeting is a mandatory part of the curriculum, and the credit union helps by teaching a budgeting class at any of the schools who want us to come in. These things help youth learn, but the greatest budgeting lessons a youth ever learns come from home.
Youth learn most from seeing what their parents do. If a parent is poor at handling money, often the youth is too because they learn those same habits. The best way a parent can teach their kids about money is to handle it well themselves, and talk to their kids about why certain choices have to be made regarding money.
I learned this lesson last year. My kids were asking for a variety of items they had seen on TV commercials or that their friends had, and my regular answer was “We can’t afford it.” I have said that for years. Then I overheard my oldest telling a friend that we were too poor to do a certain activity that he hadn’t even asked us about. The lesson my son learned was that we were poor and couldn’t do things that he thought were fun.
My wife and I discussed this, and decided we needed to change how we communicate our money issues with our kids. We started by changing our answer from “we can’t afford it” to “We have decided to spend our money on other things.” We also made sure that we pointed out the things we do spend money on – scouts, brownies, tae-kwon-doe, piano lessons, swimming… and that because we have chosen to spend money on those things we have decided not to enroll the kids in hockey, or buy a Playstation… We want the kids to understand that our budget is about choices, and that we can’t just have everything we want. We also play money games with the kids (Monopoly, Life…) in addition to them earning money through extra chores around the house and yard.
So, what are your thoughts about teaching kids about money? The first 3 people to post how they teach/have taught their kids about money will win their choice of a board game (Monopoly, Monopoly City, or Game of Life) a Wealthy Barber Book, and $40 Rocky Bucks to be spent here in Rocky Mountain House. We’d like to hear from you, not only what you did but how it has turned out for your kids so far. After posting your response, please e-mail your contact info to
rockycu@myrocky.ca so we can get the prizes to you.